Understand the Factors that Cause Baby Tantrums

We have often heard parents about their stubborn toddlers and how they behave disobediently at times. Such parents can easily find tips on how to handle baby tantrums. But, it is extremely important for them to understand what are the reasons behind such behaviours in young children. 

How does a baby tantrum appear?

Tantrums are a way of young children dealing with emotions which are difficult for them to bear. Quite common amongst toddlers and per-schoolers, these are often the cause of worry for parents. Common in both boys and girls, these tantrums typically take place between the ages of one to five years. 

While meltdowns are quite apparent, there are many of us who might not be able to differentiate between a tantrum and occasional crying. If your child stiffens their body, cries loudly, pushes you away, and screams in an unruly way, you can consider it as a baby tantrum! . 

Causes of tantrums: Usually, tantrums are caused when your baby has a need or problem that has been overlooked by you or others. So, at such times, it becomes important for you to address the needs of your baby and respond aptly while maintaining a positive behaviour with your little one. 

There are various reasons why your child may be behaving somewhat roughly of late. Listed below are a few common causes of baby tantrums.

• Low temperament or irritability  
• Being hungry.
• Tiredness or exhaustion
•  Stress or frustration 
• Situations which are out of their control, such as being pushed by an older child. 
• Being afraid of something they can’t explain you about! 
• Inability to communicate or express themselves.
• Resistance to change  
• Wanting things which they can’t have, for example, a cousin’s toy, a sweet or a chocolate, an ice cream, etc. 
• Trying to be independent, i.e. to be able to walk on their own, go out, choose their clothes, switch on the television whenever they want, and the rest  
• To seek attention of their parents or others who are around them.

Once you have understood the various reasons why baby tantrums occur, you can then follow some fool proof tips shared by our experts in other articles on how to handle baby tantrums, to handle such situations more effectively.